Hannah Rhees Goodrich is no stereotype kind of girl. The creative bride always wanted something unique for her wedding — so Hannah in Wonderland was born.

“I wanted something funky and fun — the exact opposite of typical,” she says of her March 2009 wedding to Ryan Goodrich. “I had always loved ‘Alice in Wonderland’ growing up, and so it just seemed like the perfect fit.”

So with the help of her expert wedding planners, Design Elite, Hannah got her Alice on. Striped tights, felt flowers, whimsical invitations — you name it, Hannah had it. But she was careful to go for class rather than cheese.

“There’s a fine line between cool and cheesy,” Hannah says. “We didn’t want to look back 20 years later and be embarrassed, so we worked hard to make it perfect.”

Like Hannah, you, too, can have the wedding theme of your dreams. Here are 12 tips to help you along the way.

1. GO FOR IT
If you’re dying for a theme wedding, but you’re too timid to pull the trigger, just do it. First rule of wedding planning? No regrets.

2. GOOGLE AWAY
Once you pick your theme, go the way of the Google. There are countless ideas you won’t think of, so get your brain rolling on the World Wide Wed.

3. COMPROMISE YOUR HEART OUT
If you want a mix of the traditional AND the funky — do both!

“I knew I wanted to wear striped tights, but I wanted to wear them with a traditional wedding gown,” Hannah says. “That was one element of my wedding that needed to stay with tradition.”

4. WHEN IN ROME …
A successful wedding theme is determined by the commitment level. If you simply dabble in a theme, it’s hard for guests to make the connection, which leaves your reception more confusing — less epic.

5. IT’S IN THE DETAILS
The other component of a successful theme wedding comes down to the details. Your guests will remember that unique guest book or the I’ve-never-seen-that-before cake. Count on the little things.

6. LOOK INWARD
Theme weddings don’t always have to go the way of the funky. Try choosing an element that relates to you as a couple (such as a first date memory), and let the fun flow from there.

7. TAKE A MOMENT
In the midst of your theme planning, take a step back and evaluate your details a few times along the way. Like Hannah, you’ll want to go for the classy and avoid the cheese. So plan small “theme checks” along the way.

8. INVITING INVITATIONS
Start your wedding theme off right by incorporating it into the invitations (photo and all!). You’ll get guests a-talking and a-RSVPing.

9. MOTHER MAY I?
It’s absolutely your day, but it’s your mom’s day, too. So before you make any big theme decisions, be sure to talk it over with the mother. (Common courtesy, ladies.)

10. A PHOTO FINISH
No theme wedding is complete without the photographer. Be sure to communicate your vision to the photographer so it expertly runs from your head to the lens.

“Our photographer was so amazing,” Hannah says of her photographer, Terra Cooper of Magnifique Photography. “She was right there with us every step of the way.”

11. BE YOURSELVES
“Alice in Wonderland” may have been the perfect theme for Hannah and Ryan, but it’s important to stay true to who you are as a couple. Find a theme that’s in your comfort zone — or you’ll be unhappy and uncomfortable all the night long.

12. FUN, FUN, FUN
Most importantly? Have fun, fun and more fun. You deserve the theme of your dreams.

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